Have you ever paused and wondered why a resident resists care no matter how gentle your approach? Trauma-informed care for aging residents reminds us that behind every reaction, there might be a history we don’t see. While the Centers for Medicare & Medicaid Services already require trauma-informed care as part of participation standards, many senior living communities still struggle to deliver it consistently and meaningfully.

That’s why the recent $8.4 million boost to trauma-informed caregiving efforts is such welcome news. As highlighted by McKnight’s Long-Term Care News, the Jewish Federations of North America will use the funds to expand trauma-informed resources for both paid and family caregivers.

Their work spans over a decade building tools, training, and funding to help caregivers understand how trauma affects people across the lifespan. It’s about adapting care in ways that give residents control, comfort, and the dignity they deserve. I’ll never forget a resident at the Jewish Home I once administered. She was terrified of showers, and we learned she was a Holocaust survivor. The tile, the cold, the sound of water—it triggered deeply painful memories. I ended up giving her showers myself, in my suit and heels, just to earn her trust. Over time, with warmth, patience, and giving her choices, she finally began to feel comfortable. That’s the heart of trauma-informed care.

Not every story is so clear. Many residents resist care for reasons we may never fully understand. But one thing’s for certain, our approach has to be individualized. What works for one person may not work for another. That’s why training matters. A free five-hour course—Person-Centered, Trauma-Informed Essentials for Aging Services—is already making a difference. Before taking it, only 17% of learners reported a strong understanding of trauma-informed practices. After completing it, that jumped to 92%.

It’s time to take the next step. Support your staff, take the training, and commit to trauma-informed care for aging residents. When we care in ways that honor the whole person, healing truly begins.

Stay well and stay informed!